Before reading this awesome email, I want to show you the im discussion leading up to this.  An ex(havent dated in well over a year) asked me my thoughts about her dating a much older lesbian(and guys, not the pretty lesbian from your dreams).  I told her I couldnt support her decision because she had just broken up with a guy of 4 months AND THIS SEEMED LIKE A CRAZY IDEA TO ME FOR HER.  This is the IM part….

“Me: I told you I cannot support this…I dont think it is right for you
Her: i can’t fucking believe this
why?
Me: what do you want me to say
Her: what makes you think that?
Me: great idea!
I cant do it
Her: fuck you
Me: ttyl
Her: what the fuck
so what if she’s not the right one???
i’m going for coffee… that’s how people get to know each other
you don’t know anything about her
fuck you, you piece of shit hick
i can’t believe you would do this to someone you consider a friend
Me: Then maybe we shouldnt be friends
if that is how you really feel
Her: fine
i don’t need “friends” who try to bring me down
Me: I dont need friends that wont listen to reason
or put expectations on me
Her: it’s not your fucking choice
it’s not your fucking life
Me: fine..live it
have fun
Her: you’re such a fucking moron
Me: thanks…
the fucking hick comment was precious
Her: you are a county hick
whether or not you like it
you’ve turned into one
and you don’t even have a real fucking job

After the last comment, I blocked her…this is her email response to it…classic.

“you are a lousy friend.  all i expect is that you’re supportive of my decisions, but you are somehow uncapable of doing that.  it’s one thing to Discuss and talk out some of the concerns you have.  but you outright tell me that you’re not supportive, like somehow, you know better? 
 
 
just because you screwed up your life for a lot of years doesn’t mean that i shouldn’t be able to make my own choices and my own mistakes without dealing with your nonsense.  a lot of people are so much further along that you are at your age.  everyone has to make their own decisions, and their friends should be there to support them.  your assuming that somehow you know all the facts when you don’t really pisses me off.  again, you act like somehow you know so much better, and you know what’s good for me.  well, obviously, you don’t. 
 
 
i know this is a really nasty e-mail, but i figured maybe the only way to get through to you is to approach the situation like you do — with no tact.  just cold, hard reality.  well, it’s the truth — you’re a fucking loser, and A LOT of the decisions you’ve made in your life have been poor.”